Dating for bipolar
The bottomline is that bipolar disorder is a type of mental illness and despite large options in treatment and therapy, a person affected by it will never be able to offer you the kind of emotional and psychological support that a completely healthy partner can.
If you begin dating a patient of bipolar disorder, you are bound to feel that there are three people in the relationship – you, your partner and the disease.
And stress can trigger those symptoms even if you are medicated.But he clearly didn’t know, because he didn’t mention it and seemed quite happy sitting across from me at my local Mexican restaurant, as we waited on our fajitas, me on my second Margarita. I genuinely cannot remember how, but he asked me a question and I inwardly rolled my eyes because I knew the moment had come (a little earlier than I’d hoped), and I said: “It’s because I had a nervous breakdown and I have bipolar.” Nothing. He just said, “OK.” I think I may have asked him if he wasn’t scared.He didn’t get up, throw some money on the table, make his excuses and hurry out. When I honestly say I can’t remember his exact answer, it’s because he was nonplussed. ’ No normal person would just shrug off the fact that the woman they’ve been dating for the past three weeks has a mental illness, surely.You may be required to give more and expect less to the relationship which over time can prove to be exhausting and unsatisfactory.So if you are still not seeing this person seriously, consider whether you will be able to get emotionally involved with someone who requires long term treatment and support.